The holidays are upon us, and for many, that means gathering with loved ones, sharing meals, and creating memories. But for some, holidays like Thanksgiving can be complex, bringing up a history of pain and injustice.
At US² Consulting, we believe in fostering belonging and understanding, even amidst challenging conversations. As Thanksgiving approaches, we encourage you to consider how you can honor the holiday’s true history while still fostering connection with your loved ones.
Acknowledging the Complex History
Thanksgiving is often presented as a harmonious gathering between Pilgrims and Native Americans. However, the reality is far more complicated. The arrival of European settlers led to disease, displacement, and violence against Indigenous peoples. Acknowledging this history is crucial for building understanding and respect.
Tips for Navigating Thanksgiving:
- Educate Yourself: Take time to learn about the true history of Thanksgiving from Indigenous perspectives. There are many resources available online and in books.
- Start Conversations: If you feel comfortable, engage in open and respectful conversations with family and friends about the complexities of Thanksgiving.
- Share Accurate Narratives: Challenge the traditional Thanksgiving story by sharing accurate information about the experiences of Native Americans.
- Honor Indigenous Peoples: Consider incorporating ways to honor Indigenous peoples and their traditions into your Thanksgiving celebration. This could include acknowledging the land on which you gather, supporting Indigenous-owned businesses, or learning about Indigenous foods and recipes.
- Focus on Gratitude: While acknowledging the difficult history, you can still find ways to express gratitude for the people and things in your life.
Building Bridges, Fostering Belonging
Thanksgiving can be an opportunity to build bridges and foster understanding. By acknowledging the full history of the holiday and engaging in respectful dialogue, we can create a more inclusive and meaningful experience for everyone.
